Do You Have The Power?

Do you know that he/she that has the power in a breakup situation, will be the one whom the other comes crawling back too?

If you are in a breakup situation, one person will be the all powerful the other the crawler (or beggar).

Who do you want to be?

If you said the the "All Powerful" then try the following:

1. Change your mindset and decide you are the Powerful one.
2. As the powerful one, you are picky. In fact, you are hard to get. You do not chase. You are chased. If you still talk on the phone, stop. If you phone rings - don't answer it. If you email or text - stop. Do not respond. You refuse to communication for the time being.
   
3. Only return any communication if at least one day has gone by. If they phoned and left you a message, return to call in a couple of days. Make them wait. Same with email or text. Make them wait. All Powerful ones are too busy to instantly call back or respond.
   
4. Do something. All powerful ones - get out and have fun with friends and family and they do not sit around watching tv stewing over their ex. Get out and take your mind off of your relationship.
5. Be happy. If you are feeling sad, be happy anyway. Fake it till you truly feel happy. Smile. Smile for 2 minutes straight till you feel different. Till you feel happy. It works. Try it.

To be the Power you need to change your mindset and get the power ... if you want to be the benefactor in who does the crawling that is.