Said "I Was Easy To Tame"

Are you tame?

Some people feel they have to train their partner. Whip them into shape so to speak.

Do you feel you have been "trained"?

It could be a sure sign that your relationship is in deep trouble.

What I mean by that is this. Some conflict is needed in a relationship. It takes two people and every one is different. You need to be different.

Take having a conversation as an example. If you totally agreed with everything said, it would certainly be a boring conversation. It would be completely one sided. You would not add any value to the conversation.

Same with relationships. You need not be tame. Why? It keeps the spice alive. It keeps the chase alive. It keeps the journey going.

What happens at the end of a journey? It is the end. It is over. So keep the journey alive and be hard to tame. You do not have to be difficult and argue. Just let them know that no one is going to master you. You are hard to tame.

I remember when I was dating. I was dating a stunning blonde. She did everything for me. She was easy to tame. What happened. I became bored. I moved on. It was not until I saw her in a bar having a great time without me that I "wanted her" again.

The moral ... keep the fire alive by being wild and hard to get.